Response to the "Words Matter" poll:

The words we use convey the amount of respect we have for each other. It is entirely possible to convey a lack of respect for someone specifically and eloquently without the use of generic derogatory terms. The use of these generic derogatory terms--including stereotype labels, demeaning and overused metaphors, and English words that have had their definitions bastardized--not only limits (and reveals the limits of) the speaker's command of language but often fails to specifically communicate the speaker's meaning.

Such speech patterns can often limn a lack of understanding of the topic at hand, especially in the case of stereotypes; the very terms the speaker uses to comment may not even apply to the subject at hand. The thinking required to avoid the use of derogatory and unspecific language--the search for more accurate diction--is the first step in assuring that the language we use is accurate and that it really does apply in the way we intended. Truthful words can hurt, and sometimes we need that as humans to grow into better individuals, but false words can not only hurt but also sow lies and hard feelings, even hate, throughout a community. The use of poor language to propagate hatred is inexcusable.